How to Find Time to Work Out As a Mom
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Ladies, what are your best tips for how to find time to work out as a mom? In our survey I noticed that a lot of women, like me, were struggling to find time to work out.
For my $.02, I know that I tend to have an all-or-nothing approach to exercise, and it isn’t doing me any favors! In addition to it being a bad idea from a calorie/consistency/crazy perspective (I like to do cardio to “keep the crazies away”), it turns out my mom body really does not like to do nothing for weeks and then try to do a kickboxing workout or a dead lift. I have a few ideas on how to find time to work out as a mom (below), but I can’t wait to hear your thoughts!
{related: the best free YouTube workouts for working moms}
In just the past few weeks, I’ve made a huge shift in my thinking. I’ve always thought of exercise as something to do to help my mood and to look better in clothes — I liked high intensity things like running, kickboxing, spinning, swinging kettlebells, lifting heavy weights, and more.
Since getting pregnant with my second son I’ve been in and out of PT for years — first to mitigate my SPD pain while pregnant with H, then postpartum PT for my hip flexors, then PT again after my ACL surgery for general knee rehabilitation. I’ve now found myself back in PT because of lower back pain, which turned out to be because of weak transverse abs. (I also kept making my hip flexors angry after I tried to go running, possibly because one knee is still weaker than the other. 2020 Update: if this is you check out the Myrtl exercises to strengthen your hip flexors.)
I’m now realizing my core, trunk, and back are huge priorities for me just for general health and happiness — not something to think about as a “last 10 pounds bikini body push” — and I’m making sure I do exercises every day to support those. (I’m also hoping it will help improve my posture.)
I know that as I get older, weight-bearing exercises like walking are more important (and, dare to dream, maybe one day I can get back to running), and I also know that strong muscles are very important, so I’m going to be trying to work in bodyweight exercises like squats and pushups since I don’t trust myself with weights right now.
In theory, I have time for all this, but forming the habits (like planking after I brush my teeth, or doing wall squats while I’m waiting for water to boil) is tricky.
If you’re already feeling great postpartum (or you have older kids) and are just struggling with a timing issue, know that there are a ton of short but GREAT workouts you can do in under 20 minutes. I know readers have noted that even Peloton has classes that are 5–20 minutes! (Just be careful not to overdo it as a newbie.)
(Psst: if you’re still pregnant, these are my favorite prenatal exercise DVDs!)
Kat’s favorite prenatal exercise DVDs & books: one / two / three / four
Some of the short workouts that I’ve looked into include:
 Seven: This app (iOS and Android) gives you a seven-minute workout that only requires a chair, a wall, and your own body weight — and incorporates gamification to motivate you. Based on high-intensity circuit training (HICT), Seven says it’s “based on scientific studies to provide the maximum benefit of working out regularly in the shortest time possible.” As you use the app, you can track your progress, unlock achievements, earn rewards, connect with the Health app or Google Fit, and more. Seven tells you how to perform each exercise and switches between 30 seconds of intense exercise and 10 seconds of rest. You can play your chosen music from another app in the background, too. In-app purchases ($2.99 each) include a core workout, upper and lower body workouts, stretching routine, etc. For more features, you can sign up for the 7 Club (at least, you can for iOS), which costs $14.99/month or $99.99/year. |
 StrongLifts 5×5 App This app (iOS and Android) will keep track of your lifting workouts and show your progression, tell you how long to rest between sets, and give you the exercises/weights for the next workout. It’s designed to be quick and easy to use; StrongLifts’ website says that it only takes “a single tap to enter your reps or change the weight.” The app will advise you on when to add weight, what to do if you can’t complete an exercise, etc. That’s the free version, and for $9.99 you can add the Power Pack, which gives you extra features, including the ability to link with the Health App or Google Fit, to export workouts to .csv, etc. |
 Royal Canadian Air Force Exercise Plan: Helen Mirren is a fan of this 12-minute routine (she’s done it “off and on [her] whole life”) as is Ruth Bader Ginsburg, who learned about the workout when she was 29. (She says she still does the “warm-up and stretching routine” daily.) The exercise plan involves four charts of 10 exercises that are always done in the same order for 12 minutes a day. This guide tells you how many days to spend on each chart (I, II, III, and IV), according to your age, and this is the men’s plan that the women’s plan was based on. (That’s the website The Cut linked to in their article; apologies for the circa-1998-style web design.) It’s hard to find good YouTube videos demonstrating this workout, for some reason, but here’s the original manual, available on Archive.org. (Picture credit: Wikipedia.) |
 Guided aerobic workouts! Of course we rounded up a ton of my favorite DVDs in our previous post on quick workouts for busy moms — I still like these 20-minute videos from The Firm (pictured). There are obviously much more intense ones, though, like T25 (“get it done in 25 minutes”), P90X3 (“16 extreme 30-minute workouts”), and INSANITY Fast & Furious. I’ve also heard good things about Bikini Body Guide and other on-demand videos such as those from Daily Burn. Readers who like to do videos, which are your favorites? Do you have any YouTubers you follow for workouts? Anyone have a Beachbody On Demand subscription? Any shorter guided workouts for barre or Pilates you’d recommend once I get the form locked down? |
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+1 DailyBurn – lots of varied workouts, and they suggest a “program” for you based on your preferences so it’s easy to know the cadence of videos. Great trainers.
Also, I am motivating myself right now by creating an incentive – if I accomplish working out X times a week for X weeks, I get something that I *really* want but wouldn’t normally splurge on otherwise (i.e. a nice bag, cute shoes, etc…). It is helping.
Finally, I find that working from home really helps me find time. I work out in the morning, typically before I would have started working in the office but after I’ve dropped of my kid at daycare.
Daily Burn app on Apple TV
I really want to work out in the morning, but I can’t make myself get up, so I do various things in the evening after my kid goes to bed or just after work when my husband has pick-up duty, or during naptime on the weekend. We have a treadmill at home, so I run or walk while catching up on TV. I have flirted with the BBG workouts (you can find them for free via Google) and recently re-discovered Fitness Blender. The only class I go to right now is spin.
So timely as I have been struggling lately to get motivated to work out. I am slowly accepting that 30 minutes that I will actually accomplish is better than the 1 hour that I put off/procrastinate because I don’t want to get up that early. Does anyone know of a good yoga app. I could use to guide me on a short workout in my office? I already walk during lunch but would like to get in some generally movement/stretching during breaks on days I can’t get a workout in due to lazy/tired/early wake-up for baby….
This is super super petty, but does any other runner out there really hate the photo with this post? Who runs in high top sneakers? That makes my knees and ankles hurt just thinking about it.
AM workouts, at a gym you love. I am someone that needs someone telling me what to do (I have seriously left the gym without a workout if my class is cancelled at the last minute because I don’t want to try to think one up for myself). My classes are the ONLY thing that motivates me to get up and go in the morning- plus having all of my clothes and bag ready so I can just zombie my way out the door. Also highly recommend a gym as close to your house as possible- mine is a bike/walk away.
As tough as it was in the beginning, after I had my baby it was sooo nice getting time to myself, for myself.
I have a one year old that goes to bed at 8 so I work out after she goes to bed three times a week and maybe once on the weekend. I use Fitness Blender (fitness blender dot com) which has hundreds of free videos that incorporate lifting, HIIT, kickboxing, kettlebell, stretching, etc. Work outs are all different lengths but they have ton that are in the half hour range which I love. They have paid workout plans as well. They are a cute married couple who are down to earth and fun to workout with. Can’t recommend them enough!
Morning workouts are the only way it happens. I’m up at 5 to get in my workout, get showered and be ready when the kids start waking (anywhere from 630-7a). We do have a treadmill and an elliptical now so there is no driving to a gym time, and I do occasionally run outdoors too. It also means that I get to “sleep in” on the weekends my off days and that makes it all the better.
Our nanny stays late three times a week so DH and I can go to the gym. We’re lucky that the gym is a ten-minute walk from our home, so she only ends up staying 75 minutes late those days and we are home around 7ish.
I can totally relate to the “all or nothing” mindset. I was a relatively accomplished athlete pre-kids and even finished an Ironman triathlon two months before conceiving my first. Adjusting my mindset from “every workout should have a specific purpose and last x amount of time and leave you spent” to “something is better than nothing” was hard and so worth it. Sometimes just committing to a walk around the block every day is enough to start better habits.
I have a Beachbody on Demand subscription and really enjoy it. I try to get up before the rest of the house to work out at home, but if it doesn’t happen I can stream a body weight strength workout on my phone at lunch. I would highly recommend it for the variety of workouts and the range of intensity (restorative yoga to InsanityMax) available.
I do “slow lifting,” also called “Power of 10.” You lift super heavy weights, super slowly. It is a 20 minute workout once a week. I do it with a trainer and that means there is accountability (it costs $$) and progress (because they push me instead of letting me give up halfway through). Because of the emphasis on form, there’s very little risk of injury and no stress on joints. It’s expensive but after kid #2 it’s the only thing I’ve stuck with. Plus, I’m freaking strong now. Not thin, but strong.
The thing that works for me is to exercise for 30 min in the morning before work, and not usually on weekends – if I work out on a weekend, I’m too tired to play with my son and do all my chores and generally run around all day. I can manage sitting at my desk all day. I get up about 30-45 minutes earlier and either go for a 30 min run, or do a FitnessBlender.com workout in my living room. I started doing this when my son was 2 and have maintained it for 3 years now.
When I first started and couldn’t run, I did one of their FB 30 plans, which are 8 weeks of scheduled workouts, all about 30 minutes or less. (See https://www.fitnessblender.com/plans/fb30-8-week-fat-loss-for-busy-people-lose-weight-tone-up-build-lean-muscle). Highly recommended! Their videos are all free on YouTube, you pay a one time fee of $14.99 for the schedule if you want it and you can recycle it indefinitely.
If you want to try it out, they have a free 5 day version here: http://www.fitnessblender.com/videos/day-1-fitness-blenders-free-5-day-workout-challenge-for-busy-people
I often watch the workout video on my phone in the living/dining area while my husband and son are eating breakfast and watching TV- I had to give up on privacy, motivating music, and/or a serene environment. I sometimes get interrupted and have to take breaks to refill Cheerios, etc. It is definitely more pleasant to do alone but I am not willing to sacrifice the sleep I would have to wake up early enough for that to happen. Now that I can run again I love to do that outside and escape!
If I have to stay up late for work and need to catch up on sleep in the morning, I occasionally substitute a long walk at lunch for my morning workout, and I take breaks if I am sick or just really not feeling it, but I love how it makes me feel. I try to ask myself, will I regret exercising? The answer is almost never “yes.”
Highly recommend P90x3. 30 min workouts. Lots of variety – strength, cardio, agility, flexibility, core – plus Tony Horton is fun and self-effacing. Just requires a set of dumbbells and maybe a pull-up bar. Love it. Do it in the morning first thing and my day is made
On evenings when my husband works late AND I don’t have work to do after our daughter goes to bed (or shows to watch or meals to prepare or birthday parties to plan or thank you notes to write, etc.), I love many of the classes on Yoga Today. Really good. That said, despite paying for the membership to motivate myself, it happens a handful of times a year.
I find the only way that I make time for it is if I do it on my lunch during my work day. Once I get home I have a very small window of time to make dinner, clean up, and spend quality time with DS which I don’t want to miss out on since I’m away from him all day. Maybe once he’s older and more independent with sleep I will switch to doing some stuff at night; but currently doing a class at the gym on campus (I work at a teaching hospital) or an eliptical/weight training combo seems to serve me best. I’m having motivation issues with it currently but I still recommend this set up!