Washable Wednesday: Adele Print Matte Jersey Wrap Dress

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BCBGMAXAZRIA 'Adele' Print Matte Jersey Wrap DressLabor day sales have already started — over at Corporette I did a mini roundup for Last Call’s excellent sale (look at these cute little kneepads for crawling babies!), and will be doing one later this morning for the Nordstrom clearance sale, which just started this morning. For Washable Wednesday I’m liking this wrap dress from BCBG MaxAzria. This is one of those dresses that has been a hit for the company, and it returns every season in new colors and prints. I think it could work for pumping, or even work as a nursing dress with a nursing camisole beneath it. It was $198, but is now marked to $118 at Nordstrom. BCBGMAXAZRIA ‘Adele’ Print Matte Jersey Wrap Dress (L-3)

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And — here are some of our latest threadjacks of interestworking mom questions asked by the commenters!

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Piggybacking off the above thread: Has anyone gotten pressured by their supervisor to shorten their leave? If so, how did you deal with it?

I’m 36 weeks pregnant and my boss has made abundantly clear his expectation that I work up until the end. (Example: the person covering for me is starting two business days before my due date, and my boss expressed his delight that the two of us “would have at least a few days of overlap.”) I’m having an uncomplicated pregnancy so far, and have only recently started feeling the tiredness and achiness creep in — but regardless, I feel kind of resentful of the expectation. As if that’s not annoying enough, an even bigger problem is that my boss still expects me to cover an enormous project with an internal deadline a couple of weeks after I return from leave. There is no way I’ll be able to finish the project in a couple of weeks, so I feel like his position is a not-s0-thinly veiled attempt to get me to come back earlier, and/or to come back and work like a dog to get this done. I’m not planning to take a ton of time off — about 15 weeks, mostly unpaid.

I’m really not sure how to handle this. When I first shared the news of my pregnancy, I was told to “take as much time as I need.” But now that the reality of my being out is creeping in, I feel like that’s definitely not the expectation.

How do people do it?? I’m only 33 weeks, and I am already really struggling to get through the day. I’m in biglaw, so the hours and stress aren’t exactly light, but my schedule has been fairly decent (by biglaw standards) recently, and I’m still struggling. Do most people just push through till 40 (or more…) weeks? Or do a lot of people leave work earlier and just not talk about it? Ideally, I want to save as much of my maternity leave time for after the baby comes, but at what price to my own complete discomfort?

Would love advice on what, specifically, to do to look for a new job/develop a new job without having your employer aware in a smaller town market.

Part of the issue is that I need a shorter commute, have family obligations with two young children, one of whom has medical issues, and legitimately less working hours and am okay with taking a pay cut in order to make that happen in the short term. Part of the issue is that I can see I am basically in a dead-end position within the context of my current firm and there are a lot of administrative issues – there simply does not exist an opportunity to advance in pay or in the direction of law I would like to practice.

There are two local bar associations – one has 40 members, one has 35. There are only two firms with more than five attorneys in this region (which I am tied to). Truly everyone knows everyone. I can do this with a long-term game plan – 6-12 months, but I need some kind of game plan. I know my firm and if word got out that I was at all interested in looking, they’d let me go in a heartbeat. They are well known for not caring at all about associate retention. I have a good reputation, I think, but I don’t know how to move the conversation from “everything is going well” to “I might be interested in buying your law practice” or “I might be interested in joining/partnering with you.” Any thoughts or experience?