Finally Friday: Kiltie Oxford

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Toms Kittie OxfordsI haven’t really subscribed to the oxford trend before, but if you’re on the hunt for a flat shoe with laces that you can wear to work, these are very highly rated and they’re only $88.95 at Nordstrom. (Amazon has a few lucky sizes as low as $70.) Reviewers are talking about wearing them with cropped pants and cropped jeans, and I think it would be a cute look for the right woman. They’re available in the pictured black suede and also a two-tone natural suede, both in sizes 5.5–11. TOMS Kiltie Oxford (L-all)

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Another Threenager commiseration post, seriously, what it is with 3 year olds?? Our daycare has cameras and I just wached my son hit his classmate with a train track, get a warning, hit her again, then go to sit in a time-out. His teacher had to physically remove his ragey three year old self and then hold him in the chair, where my son then SMACKED HIM IN THE FACE. His teacher was totally calm cool and collected; let him calm himself down, then sent him off to play.

He’s been showing these behaviors at home too (ragey tantrums, hitting).

This is totally normal right? Or should we look into it further?

For those of you whose husbands have had a vasectomy, how long does that whole process take? This is what I’m imagining in my mind– he goes to some kind of initial appointment, schedules the actual procedure. The procedure is done at some point, and then after that there are several months where I still have to be on birth control. So from the initial appointment to the point where I get to stop taking birth control is going to be several months?

I’m going off one form of birth control next week, and have an appointment to discuss what to do between now and whenever I no longer need contraception. Could we just do c*ndoms? Or is that dumb? I’m really over hormonal birth control. Everything I’ve taken during the last two years has had some kind of awful side effect and I’m counting down the days til I don’t have to be on anything.

So I had thought that 2015 would be the end of me getting prints of photos and putting them in albums, and instead we’d start doing an annual photobook with all the best pictures since all of ours are online somewhere. But making a book for 2016 just seems daunting, and so I’m tempted to just order all the pictures anyway and put them in albums. Anyone else struggling? I made a book for the grandparents for Baby HSAL’s first year and it was such a pain, even with Mixbook.

On the list for mental/emotional/logistical labor –
I asked my husband to make a follow up appointment for our son with a specialist and follow up on it all including taking the kid (because *he* flaked on the last appointment and *I* had to cancel at the last minute).

So he did. I put it in my calendar and reminded him, but he had still already remembered – so far so good.

*However*, 2 months ago I gave him our new health insurance cards and told him to throw out the old one in his wallet. 1 month ago I reminded him that the new one was still sitting on his dresser.

This morning I remembered that he probably didn’t have the new insurance card, and sure enough, he doesn’t and they are already on their way to the appointment. So I’m emailing it to him now, and if there are any problems with getting it paid, *HE* is going to deal with it. Except he probably can’t, because it’s my name on the insurance, and we all know how easy insurance companies are to deal with.

Giant sighs. Baby steps. My husband is great about so much of the day to day, but is so not detail oriented about this kind of thing.

Talk to me about professional baby/family photos. This was not a thing in my family growing up, and I don’t really know how to do it. I see all kinds of things – staged/posed photos of kids in buckets/wagons/trees; families wearing matching clothes frolicking on a beach; and what look like really expensive candid family photos. What do you all do? Where do I start? LO is turning one soon and I feel like this is Something We Should Do.

Also, any great non-Pinterest-y ideas for celebrating the one year mark would be appreciated. We’re not doing a big party – just moved and don’t have our village yet – but I am looking for nice ways to mark the milestone.

Anyone have experience with acupuncture during pregnancy? I’m 32 weeks and the baby is transverse (and has been for a few weeks). I’ve been seeing a chiropractor, but I’d like to feel like I’m doing everything I can to get this baby into the correct position. My doula has suggested looking into acupuncture as well. I’d really appreciate any advice you ladies might have. Thanks!!!

Please tell me that the second winter of daycare/preschool is better than the first wrt sickness. My twins started preschool two mornings per week this fall and I swear there have been maybe ten days total since then when they’ve both been well. We’re doing double stomach bug + croup at the moment. Which last night involved asking the nighttime on-call nurse to “hang on for a second” when she called back (1) just after A had barfed in his crib, again; (2) while B was wailing at the top of his lungs because I think he had gas pain,; and (3) I had just backed into and knocked over the humidifier. Then I took the call while wiping down A, trying to hear the nurse over B’s screams, and trying to keep A from smashing his face into his barfed-on but much beloved blanket (he was screaming “bwanket bwanket” by the end , like I was just being evil keeping it from him). It was as awesome as you’d expect. Oh did I mention husband is on travel? Yeah.

Any suggestions for helping a parent through a hip replacement?

My mother is a particularly terrible patient. She has zero trust for doctors and often does too much too soon and reinjures herself. She also has a tendency towards depression and lives a very solitary life in the middle of nowhere. There won’t be anyone to check on her in person so I will have to trust what she tells me, which isn’t always accurate. I could probably go down for a few days to help, but I’m not sure if I’d be more help or trouble with a baby and preschooler in tow. I’m particularly concerned about her pain management since doctors are being weird about pain meds in view of the opioid epidemic.