This post may contain affiliate links and CorporetteMoms may earn commissions for purchases made through links in this post. As an Amazon Associate, I earn from qualifying purchases.As a working mother, do you think a lot about how you frame the idea of “work” with your kids? Did you need to have a special “mommy needs to work” discussion? Do you find that it’s important to you to frame it differently than, perhaps, your partner does? Do you do it as a reaction to mom guilt, a feminist statement, or some other lesson you’re trying to share (e.g., find work you enjoy! — or, we must earn money in order to live)? This came up for us a while ago. My husband always likes to tell our eldest how sad he is to leave him to go to work. After a while, my son turned to me and asked, “Mommy, are you sad you have to work right now?” And I thought about it a beat or two and then said, “No, honey — Mommy likes her work. I’m always sad when I’m not with you but I like what I do, and it brings a lot of value to Mommy’s life.” (Or, you know, something vaguely coherent in that same vein.) Maybe I’m just being defensive because I work from home, or because my son sees a lot of playmates whose mothers’ don’t work. But the more I started thinking about it, it seemed like there were a lot of valuable lessons to impart — work can be fun if you find the right work. Or, yes, work can be fun but it is also important to earn money because things cost money, like toys… and underpants… and shelter… and food. I’m apparently not the only one thinking about the “mommy needs to work” discussion because Amazon has a TON of books. I haven’t read any of them — any reviews, ladies?
- Mommy Goes to the Office (My Working Mommy), by Gulden Mesara-Dogan
- Mommy Works, written by Nerissa Bilan Hochenberg, illustrated by Edgar Bilan
- Mommy and Daddy Work to Make Some Dough, written by Jennifer Lynn Pereyra (at least, I’m assuming this one isn’t about baking)
- Oscar the Pig: Mommy Goes to Work, written by Megan Calhoun
- Mommy Loves You All Day Long, written by Barbara M Ristaino