Accessory Tuesday: Desi Lug Sole Loafer

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Naturalizer - Desi Lug Sole Loafer (Women)

Loafers are having a moment. But despite their reputation for comfort and walkability, not all are created equal. These lug sole loafers by Naturalizer are a step above.

Naturalizer has been a go-to for comfortable shoes for years. These lightweight loafers feature “Contour+ Comfort” footbeds so you can wear them all day. The 2 1/4″ heel and chain link detail add visual interest. Best of all, it comes in a range of whole and half sizes (5 to 12), and medium and wide widths.

The Desi Lug Sole Loafer is $125 at Nordstrom and is available in four neutral colors (some lucky sizes/widths only). 

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Anyone been to a monster truck rally? What is the experience like? I think my 4-year old would enjoy it but I would probably hate every second.

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Ok another question from me today. I’m in a huge workout/exercise slump, and have been for most of the year. The issue isn’t time or logistics. As in…I do not want to do ANYTHING except take walks and maybe do a weekly yoga class (online or in-person). I used to at least put on a weighted vest when I walked and I don’t even want to do that.

I’m not athletic at all, but in the past I’ve enjoyed classes like barre, F45, orange theory, and/or just going to the gym and doing the treadmill/lifting weights but right now ALL of these sound terrible and like another thing to DO.

Ironically I’ve lost a lot of weight this year due to other stresses…and been told by the people in my life on how great I look. NOT humble bragging – I just find this very ironic and silly given my actual lack of fitness, and then think back to times I was in a great workout routine and nothing seemed to move the weight off.

Any tips on getting motivated to do more? Or should I just embrace the phase until I feel differently?

does anyone have the Mighty 3 Spotify & Amazon Music Player? I saw it recommended on a blogger’s gift guide and my kids would LOVE something like this, but it has terrible reviews.

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Anyone else have a super-sound-sensitive kiddo? Suggestions for how to best support him? We sent him with some headphones to help muffle the sound if needed today, and have reached out to the teacher, but I’m at sea for how to navigate this.

My SIL is expecting her first baby. It will be our first niece or nephew and my kids’ first cousin, and we’re all excited. Unfortunately, my SIL tends to be holier-than-thou in the best of circumstances and this pregnancy (combined with some professional training in child development) is reallllly bringing out the smugness and self-satisfaction about what an amazing parent she’ll be. It also stings a little because in talking about everything her little darling will do perfectly that my kids don’t, she’s not very subtly insulting my kids, who really like her. We have to spend a lot of time with her over the upcoming holidays and I’m dreading it. Our kids are in elementary school, so it’s been a long time since we’ve been around proper POOPCUPs (let alone POOPUCs — parents of one perfect unborn child!) Anyone been through something similar and have advice besides just trying to ignore the comments?

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Help me stop overthinking!

We got kid’s first eval from the class he started in August. He’s almost 4, so I understand how low stakes all of this is. He’s also learned and grown so, so much since he started in this class.

In most areas, he scored “still learning with assistance” and a few areas he was almost “showing progress independently”. The teacher wrote at the top of all the reports that she does not expect mastery at this point, and she understands there are probably things we see our kids do that aren’t reflected here, and that’s OK.

Despite that, I’m like sitting here wishing it’d be a glowing, better eval when…it’s completely reasonable. What is wrong with me?

We can set up time to have the teacher discuss the eval with us, which we will.

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From my understanding, ear tubes are pretty universally well regarded. My other 2 kids have both had surgery so I know what to expect with that, but any other tips for ear tubes? Anyone regret getting them?

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