Accessory Tuesday: Blythe Ric Rac Belt

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Blythe Ric Rac Belt I really like this snake embossed leather belt from Loeffler Randall. It is called a “ric rac” belt because of the wavy pattern, and I think this is a fun way to add some interest to an otherwise conservative outfit. I also am of the mind that this type of snake print functions as a neutral, since it incorporates blacks, grays, and cream colors. For me, animal prints of all kinds are always in style, but I see them making a big comeback as a trend for the fall. This is definitely a cute and subtle way to do it. This brand of shoes is very pricey (to me), but the cost of the belt in comparison seems reasonable. This belt is $150 at Shopbop. Blythe Ric Rac Belt More affordable options are available from Ann Taylor Factory (XS–XL) and Eloquii (plus sizes). Affiliate This post contains affiliate links and CorporetteMoms may earn commissions for purchases made through links in this post. For more details see here.Thank you so much for your support!

Sales of note for 9.10.24

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Kid/Family Sales

  • Carter’s – Birthday sale, 40-50% off & extra 20% off select styles
  • Hanna Andersson – Up to 50% off all baby; up to 40% off all Halloween
  • J.Crew Crewcuts Extra 30% off sale styles
  • Old Navy – 40% off everything
  • Target – BOGO 25% off select haircare, up to 25% off floor care items; up to 30% off indoor furniture up to 20% off TVs

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Talk to me about how your partner/spouse behaved when you were TTC on months you didn’t succeed. My husband and I have been trying for a couple of months now and each month we are not successful, I am pretty bummed out for about a day. Husband is super apathetic. Doesn’t engage when I want to talk about it, and I really don’t have close child-bearing friends I could talk to about it instead. Plus, I feel like I should be able to freely discuss this with the person who is the other half of the equation. I understand it must be difficult for him to feel as connected to the process as I do, but has anyone else had a similar experience? Was there a way you framed the conversations that seemed to help?

My daughter’s preschool sent a notice home that they are having speech and OT screenings this week. It’s optional and you have to pay $20. My daughter is 3.5.

Is there any reason not to do it? She’s actually already had speech last year for a stutter which she grew out of. I don’t really have any concerns now, though I have wondered if she is behind on writing, coloring, drawing stuff. Is this even something OT covers? I’m typically inclined to participate in everything offered but I wanted to make sure there was no downside I’m missing.

Help! I have a very squirmy baby and the straps on our beloved ikea high chair are not cutting it. Any recs for a high chair that is as easy to wipe down as the ikea one (i.e. no fabric, crevices etc.) but has a very secure harness to keep her safe in place?

this belt featured is super cute but none of my pants have belt loops anymore. Even ones with a tab/zipper don’t have them (wearing the J Crew edie pants today and I feel like they should have them). Any suggestions ladies?

What’s your favorite iphone case? I need something that can withstand my toddler, but also one that isn’t hideous

Wondering how do people approach fundraising requests/ efforts from school? My kid is in second grade, and it seems like several times a year, we get a flyer for some kind of fundraising event- either for the school, or for a non-profit (like the Heart Foundation) where my child is expected to raise money. When I was growing up, I remember going door to door to ask for pledges/contributions for fundraisers, but that’s not something I’m really comfortable having my 8 year old do. Generally I’ve been ignoring the flyers, but there are always incentives for the students to raise money (like a class party or a teacher in a dunk tank, or some trinket), so I’m wondering if I should help my child participate and maybe there is something for her to learn from it? How do other people handle this? Also would appreciate other perspectives and ways to reframe this in my head because I feel a little guilty for being a Scrooge and just wanting to opt out.

I know this is super cliche, but I feel really disconnected from my husband and have for a while. We get along fine (occasional bickering, but nothing out of the ordinary) and he’s an amazing dad and partner in running the household. But we don’t really have anything in common besides the kids. We have a lot of fun on family outings when we can both focus on interacting with the kids, but when we try to go out just the two of us it’s a few minutes of conversation about the kids and work and then…nothing. We have very different jobs and interests and always have, and it feels like we’ve just sort of run out of common ground. We’ve been married over 10 years; two kids under 4. I know people will say this is a hard season of life, although I’m not sure how much the kids are to blame (they’re easy as kids go and my parents are local-ish and able to babysit frequently, so we get much more alone time than most parents of young kids). The only way in which I think the kids are a factor is that they drive home how little I enjoy spending time alone with my husband (because it’s not normal to prefer the company of your 1 year old to your husband, right?)
I feel silly complaining about this when I have so many friends whose husband are lazy loads who aren’t doing their share of parenting or chores, but at the same time, I feel like I’m going to be so lonely when my kids are grown (a long way away, I know) and I can’t imagine spending the rest of my life with someone I have so little to talk to about. Help!

Anyone have a willow pump? I bought one because I have a lot of travel coming up and I can’t seem to get the hang of it. Looking for any tips or tricks. I get less milk with it (which I expected based on past use of freemie cups) but overall it’s just a total pain in the butt. It won’t get out of stimulation mode or it won’t turn on because it says I’ve assembled it improperly or it pumps air into the bag.

I have a 4.5 month old baby with eczema and gas. I need to sleep train because he’s waking every 45 minutes and i’m just dying, but I don’t know how to make sure he’s not itchy or in pain. It doesn’t seem like gas drops last that long. Has anyone found a good solution for baby eczema?

Has anyone on here really really struggled to lose weight after a baby despite doing things right? I am 3 months post partum, and even though I have been eating salads for lunch and dinner and healthy breakfasts (which is WAY more healthy than I was before I had the baby) – I have GAINED weight (after an initial loss of a bit of weight just due to not having a baby inside anymore). I don’t want to make this about numbers, but I am several sizes larger than I was before baby. I don’t have any crazy expectations, I would just like to see the scale go down and not up now that I am exercising and eating healthy. Same thing happened after my first kid – I just really didn’t lose any weight until I stopped breastfeeding (but I did eventually get back to where I was). I’m feeling a bit sorry for myself today and would love any good thoughts, advice, commiseration, whatever. I realize it’s not a big deal in the scheme of things, but I am bummed out that I am giving it all this effort and it is going backwards.

Help me find a new keyboard or some other solution. For a variety of reasons, I’ve made a conscious effort to keep personal and work emails, contacts, etc. separate (two phones, rarely handle personal business through work account, never handle work on personal account). We’ve got a shared family email for all things kiddo-related, which has been great, and I really love being able to avoid distractions (work or personal), when needed, by keeping things separate. Plus, keeping things in separate buckets helps my frazzled brain stay a little more organized.

BUT, our office blocks the mail of G, which makes it so much harder to manage all of the non-work commitments through kiddos’ schools, church, the Junior League, etc. that go through my personal email. I’ve been using my cell phone, but this is cumbersome and frustrating at best, especially as we head into the holidays. It would be so great to be able to have a real keyboard for personal emails during the day! I don’t have an iPad or similar tablet and am wondering if a multi-device Bluetooth keyboard is the best option. I currently use a unifying wireless keyboard for my laptop at work. Any recommendations or other ideas?

My Kindergartner broke her arm this weekend and will be in a sling for 6-8 weeks — it’s her right (dominant) hand, but she’s been eating with her left hand just fine and has been coloring and writing with her right.

School just called to ask if we wanted to put a 504 plan in place for accommodations — I’m not sure it’s worth the paperwork on the school’s part (and my part to some extent) to get something in place for a Kindergartner for the 6-8 weeks she’d need it. Anyone done something like that? What were the accommodations?

I’m emailing her teacher to see what he suggests for accommodations, but I thought I’d crowd source as well.

Thanks in advance!

My 2.5-yo wanted to wear all the plastic jewelry she has this morning so she would “be beautiful.” Is it too sensitive or overstepping to ask her regular caregivers and family she sees often to avoid appearance comments? We try to avoid “you look pretty”/”you look beautiful”-type comments ourselves. I mean, I’m sure she would have found another delay tactic this morning if “beauty” wasn’t on her radar, but the whole need to be beautiful thing was an added layer I would prefer to do without.

How do you handle this?

Generally have your kindergartners trick or treated with friends (along with parents, of course)?

We just started kindergarten this year. We are a little concerned about kid’s social skills there thus far for various reasons, and recognize we may need to step up one-on-one play dates etc. I suggested we find a family from his class to trick or treat all together, but husband insisted at this age it could still just be a family thing. Honestly that does sound more appealing just with it being a work night & I am a little worried we ask a kid to join us that maybe doesn’t like our kid but we have no idea (& that is kind of a high stakes night for that parent to then feel like they need to push their kid to hang out with our kid if so… it’s not like they can lie too much about other plans cause we could run into anyone theoretically). Kid doesn’t yet have an obvious really good friend we would be confident about.

But I’m worried that maybe EVERYONE in Kindergarten goes out with friends of some sort & we will be missing an opportunity everyone else is getting yet another tighter bond with each other? What are your all experiences at this age?

Ugh. I know I am probably over thinking. Thanks! (Please be kind in responses, sensitive subject for me).

Recommendations for slippers for my 2.5 year olds? I want ones they can get on and off themselves but that will actually stay on as they wall around the house. Do such things exist?

In the past we’ve just had moccasin style ones, but I don’t think they can get their feet into those without help.