Finally Friday: Double Buckle Pump

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NWT Bella Vita suede heelsI am not quite sure why, but something about these pumps are calling my name. I like the double buckle, the fun colors (they come in six suede colors, including black and beige), and they’re from what I always think of as a comfort brand, Bella Vita. They’re only $99 and winning rave reviews at Nordstrom and Zappos — and it’s nice that they come in four widths, sizes 5-12. BELLA VITA ‘Niko’ Double Buckle Pump On the hunt for strappy pumps for work? We just did a major roundup at Corporette. (L-all)

Sales of note for 11.25.24 (Great Black Friday Sales!!)

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And — here are some of our latest threadjacks of interestworking mom questions asked by the commenters!

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Question for those of you who have a breastmilk stash – do you cycle out the frozen stuff once in a while? We haven’t had to dip into the stash much, so I wasn’t sure if at some point I should start thawing out the frozen and freezing fresh stuff. But I know the fresh milk is best so is that a bad solution? Any stash secrets I should be aware of?

Can someone point me to that thread of locking a screen so your kid doesn’t close out of tv/apps all the time? Google is failing me. Thanks!

Question for those of you in cold weather areas. What kind of hat do you wear with your work clothes in winter? I’ve had a cashmere beanie/skullcap for awhile but it needs replacing. I see the appeal of a knit beret but I think it will always be a little too Monica Lewinsky for me. I know the hats with the big pom-poms on top are still popular, but can someone in her late 30s wear one with a dress coat and suit? I love the idea of a structured hat, but I wear my hair half-up/half-down too often for that to work, so I think it has to be a knit.

When did you actually enjoy s*x after baby and was it before, after or immediately upon weaning? It still hurts too much for me right now (3 months out) Tips to make it less painful?!

ISO shopping recommendations for professional clothes. I am pear-shaped size 10/12 undertaking a job search with multiple networking opportunities next week and want to look neat and polished, (as opposed to my current look which is just….ugh.) I loathe shopping and am willing to spend on quality items so I don’t have to regularly replace them. (Shoot me if I have to put on those paper thin crap Ann Taylor teeshirts again!) I want to own a few solid, well made items that go together. I have carved out tomorrow afternoon in NYC to shop, and am currently planning on MM La Fleur, J Crew and Banana. Any recommendations of where to shoor things I should consider? Thank you so much, fashionable mamas!

I need help! my 9 month old has never been a great drinker (fabulous eater), but she’s recently gotten worse. For the past six weeks, she only takes a bottle three times a day: before her two naps and before going to sleep at night. This, combined with the 4 oz she takes in food during the day, means she only gets about 18oz during the day, and then she nurses 2-3 times through the night. (it’s not a bottle thing. she won’t nurse during the day either.)

Well, now she has started to fight the bottle at naptime too! essentially, I can only get her to drink if I put her to sleep in my arms and then dream feed her before each nap and bedtime. and now she is fighting going to sleep in my arms! I think she doesn’t want to go to sleep and realizes the bottle means it is almost sleep time. so, she refuses the bottle (or nursing). does that make sense? my question is: how do I make it stop? she isn’t interest in the bottle or boob at any other time during the day. she would rather play. do I stop feeding her before naptime in the hopes that she will eventually get hungry enough to eat during the day? should I quit feeding her food (cereal/fruit) during the day so she will drink more?

I’m at my wits end, internet friends.

Can anyone speak to living in South Bend, Indiana, and/or working at the University of Notre Dame?

Pumping question!

I’m going back to work in a week and pumping seems daunting. Did any of you pump just twice during your workday instead of three emails times? Did that work?

What about formula during the day and nursing at home?

I’m returning to work from maternity leave on Monday. I’m going half time for a bit but woulf appreciate tips on easing the transition.

I need some ideas for at home after the kids are asleep date nights other than sit on the couch and watch tv. My idea of hiring a babysitter for the weekend went out the window with a $1k repair to the car this week. Is there anything exciting to do? Games to play?

I love the style of these – kind of a bootie look but in a shoe. But I don’t love the colors and texture.

Immediate TJ. I am newly pregnant with my second. Our first is not quite 1, so these two will be close in age. This was kinda sorta planned (I got pregnant very quickly), but I am now completely freaking out. I am terrified about being pregnant again while trying to juggle our active baby-going-on-toddler in daycare and our two demanding full-time jobs. I’m freaked out about the impact on work (battling pregnancy fatigue again, taking two maternity leaves so close together, returning after leave while balancing an infant and toddler, etc.) And, of course, I’m terrified about how difficult it’s going to be to take care of a newborn and a young toddler at the same time. I’m also very hormonal and not sleeping well from a combination of stress, pregnancy, and our first still not sleeping through the night consistently. I’ve been lashing out at my husband for stupid things. And I’m irritable at work.

I’ve got almost 8 more months of pregnancy to go, so I know I need to rein it in. Does anyone have any advice?