Budget Thursday: Slim City Pant

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Slim City Pant ReviewReader K wrote in to give us a review of the Slim City Pant from Gap Factory! She noted, “I’ve really struggled with finding a pair of ankle pants in size long that are affordable, and these are terrific. I also have curves and the back doesn’t gap as much as most straight-body pants do. The navy is a shade brighter, so they will never be mistaken for black. I bought a pair in both navy and black, and I imagine that most of my summer work days in my business casual office will involve one or the other!” That is awesome to know, K — thank you for sharing! I like the price point too — they’re marked down to $28-$37, available in three size ranges and multiple colors, and with today you can take an additional 20% off with code GFBONUS. Nice. Slim city pant  

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my daughter (nearly 2) is attending a Montessori toddler community in the fall and needs indoor shoes/slippers that will be easy for her to take on and off. The school doesn’t do diapers – the kids wear t-shirts and underwear and indoor shoes, so the expectation is that the shoes will get peed on relatively frequently until the potty learning catches.

Her previous school also required indoor slippers but none of our go-tos are wipe-able. I’d like something really low profile/minimalist/flexible, but I’m not finding what I’m looking for. Seems like the options are Natives or Crocs, yeah?

Any tips for surviving my son’s first birthday party while actually having fun and enjoying it? I’m trying to let go of my need to control and realize that his napping/awakeness/pleasantness during the party is largely out of my hands (tried to plan around it, you know how that goes) as is the weather. I tried to keep things simple and not-too-Pinteresty for both my sanity and our bank accounts, but I still am a control freak who has asked my husband about five times what time he is picking up the kebabs. We are grilling at a park shelter (rented from the city, so we know we have it), and I’m planning to confirm that the two grandpas can help keep the grill stuff moving so that people have food. We are picking up all the other sides and drinks at Costco. My MIL is getting the cake – I have no idea what it looks like, because my stepdaughter wanted it to be a surprise, which is actually totally fine with me. My MIL has great taste and I’m sure it will be awesome.

I just want to actually enjoy it and not stress, maybe even remember to take a few pictures, and watch my kid be a maniac which he just is right now.

(After writing this, I am tempted to make myself anonymous because I’m embarrassed about how ridiculous this post is – but I will try to own it.)

Things that are not helpful today – husband googling all the extra risks/adverse outcomes of c-sections and texting them to me because our (not so) little baby girl is measuring over 6 pounds at 33 weeks (i.e., over the 90th percentile), despite the fact that I do not have gestational diabetes (my family just seems to grow big babies). Even less helpful because my husband does not process medical information well. We’re not even sure we’re going to go c-section yet, and they are going to measure her again in 3 weeks (and probably again after that). My anxiety about the possibility of being sliced open while awake is high enough as it is.

Ugh *has* a really bad hammer toe.

My kiddo A really bad hammer toe. She’s recently begun refusing to wear shoes on that foot because the shoes rub on the top of her toe. Any suggestion for brands with tall (?) toe beds?

Please don’t flame me for this but… I need advice on how to break the bottle-before-bed habit with my 16mo and transition to brushing teeth. Current routine is change into PJs, one of us rocks her while she has her bottle, then put her in crib either asleep or drowsy. She’s never taken a pacifier.

I know we need to brush her teeth but I’m not sure how to get that same relaxation for her — if we do bottle first, there’s a risk she falls asleep, and then we’d have to wake her up.

Advice?

Piggybacking off NewMomAnon’s piggyback: over the holiday, my MIL (who was being weirdly aggressive toward me) told me that the reason more moms worked today than did when she was a young mom is because women today are more materialistic and want more things and nicer things.

I decided the correct emotional response was to feel pity that her worldview was so small and that she had somehow missed the entire feminist movement.

Any tips for surviving my son’s first birthday party while actually having fun and enjoying it? I’m trying to let go of my need to control and realize that his napping/awakeness/pleasantness during the party is largely out of my hands (tried to plan around it, you know how that goes) as is the weather. I tried to keep things simple and not-Pinteresty for both my sanity and our bank accounts, but I still am a control freak who has asked my husband about five times what time he is picking up the kebabs. We are grilling at a park shelter (rented from the city, so we know we have it), and I’m planning to confirm that the two grandpas can help keep the grill stuff moving so that people have food. We are picking up all the other sides and drinks at Costco. My MIL is getting the cake – I have no idea what it looks like, because my stepdaughter wanted it to be a surprise, which is actually totally fine with me. My MIL has great taste and I’m sure it will be awesome.

I just want to actually enjoy it and not stress, maybe even remember to take a few pictures, and watch my kid be a maniac which he just is right now.

(After writing this, I am tempted to make myself anonymous because I’m embarrassed about how ridiculous this post is – but I will try to own it.)

Vent alert – I am due with our second in a couple of months and this time around we told my out of state MIL that we would call her when labor started and she would fly out when convenient (she’s used to same-day flights). Instead, she came up with her own plan. She is going to fly out here 3 weeks before my due date and “hang out with friends in the area.” She has not revealed when she will go back. She will have her own housing and a car. So, technically she is minding our wishes, but my senses are heightened because she isn’t always forthcoming with her plans and has a history of not respecting boundaries. She was also the biggest source of stress for my last pregnancy, so I have some history.

Well, piggybacking off the earlier conversations about social class…my mother has gotten quite demanding that I hire a sitter and do “adult things” on weeknights (theater, fancy dinners, spa nights, wine tastings, gala fundraisers, etc). I finally had some words with her because it felt very unsupportive, and her response was that she sees my lifestyle as “low class” and she is pushing me to “pick myself up.” Still kind of reeling today.

Does anyone have experience with pre-due date induction, elective or not?

Logistics around the due date for baby #2 are becoming a nightmare between childcare plans falling apart, DH’s work/travel schedule, and my company switching health insurance providers. I know I will be much more relaxed and able to bond with new baby, establish breastfeeding, etc. if my son is with my mom, DH is with me, and I’m not fielding payment questions constantly. I have no issues with the prospect of pitocin/epidural (had both with my first delivery), but I still feel… guilty?… trying to arrange #2’s arrival so that it is convenient for the rest of the family. Thoughts?

Coming out of the PhD fog and trying to figure out what’s left to do pre-baby.

What do I actually need for nursing / a maternity leave capsule wardrobe? I’m off for five months and realising that I have no idea what I should be wearing.

I wear dresses and the occasional skirt and I don’t own a pair of jeans. I don’t want to be wearing yoga pants all day but I’m guessing dresses are not incredibly practical? Do I order things pre-baby or just count on leggings/nursing tanks/cardigans to get me through the first few weeks? Maybe some casual knit skirts?

Also, do I get a breast pump beforehand or do I wait to see how nursing is going? They aren’t covered on the NHS so it’s a pretty big expense.