Splurge or Save Thursday: Serif Leather Tote
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Need a new tote for work? Here’s one that looks twice as expensive as it really is.
This roomy bag looks like it could easily fit a small laptop/tablet, water bottle, and even your lunch. Made from supple, grained leather, this large black tote has a wide shoulder strap and includes a coordinating zip pouch. Since it’s secured with just a clip closure, I’d add another zip pouch or two to keep your things secure.
COS’ Serif Tote is $290.
Sales of note for 2/14/25 (Happy Valentine’s Day!):
(See all of the latest workwear sales at Corporette!)
- Nordstrom – Winter Sale, up to 60% off! 7850 new markdowns for women
- Ann Taylor – Up to 40% off your full-price purchase — and extra 60% off sale
- Banana Republic Factory – 50% off everything + 15% off (readers love their suiting as well as their silky shirts like this one)
- Boden – 15% off new season styles
- Eloquii – 300+ styles $25 and up
- J.Crew – 40% of your purchase – prices as marked
- J.Crew Factory – 50% off entire site and storewide + extra 50% off clearance
- Rothy’s – Final Few: Up to 40% off last-chance styles
- Spanx – Lots of workwear on sale, some up to 70% off
- Talbots – Flash sale ending soon – markdowns starting from $15, extra 70% off all other markdowns (final sale)
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