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Some of the articles of interest to working mothers that we’ve seen around the web recently…
- If you’re trying to find your style after kids, it’s worth noting that both Fabulous After 40 and 40+Style feature older style bloggers regularly.
- Bad news for Japanese Weekend fans: The popular maternity retailer is no more (as the designer/founder recently reported on the blog).
- In New York magazine’s The Cut, a mom wonders how to help her young daughter have a healthy relationship with her body.
- A Hellobee blogger shares all the details of her family’s expenses during her son’s first year … which added up to more than $18,000.
- The Wall Street Journal reports that the middle school years aren’t just tough for kids; mothers feel the worst about their parenting when their kids are that age.
- At JSTOR Daily, Alexandra Samuel writes, “When we fret about excess screen time as bad parenting, what we’re really talking about is bad mothering.”
- Scary Mommy reviews the viral tale of the dad who had to clean up his son’s vomit in the car — it escalated quickly (although it wasn’t entirely true, he said later).
- For your Laugh of the Week, Maura Quint explains in McSweeney’s how women should ask for a raise.
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Spirograph says
Ha, I wish I could get 10 months of infant care for $11k.
Anonymous says
Oh please. Searches on kids and screen time have increased because SCREENS have increased, not because of patriarchy. Adults are worried about their own screen time, too. And it’s not that portable screens can be used in the public space. It’s because portable screens mean that to screen or not to screen is a question that can be asked anywhere, not just in the living room like it was pre-iPhone.
Also, I am so completely sick of people misusing the term “capitalism.” Capitalism is not materialism or social Darwinism or whatever else people want to use it as. It’s a system in which the type and quantity of goods and services for sale, and the prices at which they are sold are determined by private actors in response to market conditions. Nothing more and nothing less. You really, honestly, truly can be an anti-materialist capitalist. I promise. It just means you don’t think the government should be doing central planning on what’s available in the market and at what price. You’re even a capitalist if you think we need more government controls on things. It just means you’re in favor of a weak form of capitalism, that you think it basically works but that it has a large number of failures that are best addressed through regulation. It doesn’t mean you’re in favor of the patriarchy. Or that you’re super competitive. Or heartless. Or think it’s poor people’s own fault that they’re poor. Or that you’re opposed to a social safety net. It means none of these things. I thought JSTOR was supposed to be academic. This is shoddiness worthy of clickbait trolling.
FirstTimePreg says
I’m starting a pregnancy wardrobe from scratch. What are the basics? I work in a business casual office (could wear nice jeans / trendy sneakers every day if I wanted to, when clients aren’t around), so I’m looking for pieces that’ll work in my real life and at work. Also, I’m plus size. I’m looking at Destination Maternity, JCPenney and Kohl’s, but feel completely overwhelmed by the choices (and why, oh why does practically every t-shirt for pregnant women only come in horizontal stripe!?)
Sarah says
Try Old Navy maternity and Target. I’m also plus size (and was during my pregnancies), look into getting a Belly Band (Ingrid & Isabel is the brand name, I think). Everyone’s pregnancy weight gain is different the belly band made most of my regular work pants wearable til almost the very end. Also, I found a non-maternity black maxidress at Eddie Bauer that was a game-changer at the end of my summer pregnancy. Good luck!
rakma says
I just got a pair of Jessica Simpson skinny jeans from Destination Maternity, and holy cow they are the most comfortable pants I own. (and DH claims they don’t make my butt look saggy, so double win)
I found the dress pants from DM wear pretty well, and wash up great. The DM leggings are also pretty sturdy, I’m still wearing some from my first pregnancy. I tend to buy tops from Old Navy, I find there is plenty of room in a XXL top until about 8 months, when they start to get a little short. By that point, I was usually wearing leggings and a dress to work, so the tops weren’t really an issue. Most of the dresses I wore were not maternity, but Old Navy or Lands End a size up from my usual. I didn’t buy anything that I wore open – cardigans, blazers, etc- in maternity, just wore my regular size. I did buy a lightweight jacket from Old Navy, that belted around my belly, and it was the most unattractive but comfortable thing I owned. I made myself get rid of it after I was back in my regular coats post-baby, it was just too ugly to keep.
FirstTimePreg says
Thanks for the feedback! I’m definitely getting a pair or two of jeans, since that’s what I wear the most. I’ll look into those stores and see what I can buy in “regular” sizing as opposed to maternity. Thanks!
Meg Murry says
Also plus sized and I also found that I could just wear a size or two up in the beginning – I didn’t really *need* things that were technically maternity for a few months. I was also able to wear the sized up clothes post pregnancy when I hadn’t lost the all the baby weight but I was so over wearing maternity clothes.
I never found maternity jeans that I actually liked (although I was also shopping on the cheap end) so I mostly wore basic boring casual-ish pants along these lines once I needed true maternity: http://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=5862&vid=1&pid=551765032
If your office isn’t freezing you might run hot in the summer, in which case I recommend dresses or elastic waisted skirts (which again, don’t necessarily have to be maternity). Old Navy and Target were my main source for those too.
October says
+1 to the Jessica Simpson skinnies. My big “splurge,” and so worth it to have jeans that made me feel cute for the last 3 months of pregnancy. Agree that they are comfortable and don’t stretch out.
ChildhoodBookworm says
Re: The Middle School Years — When I was a childhood bookworm looking for SOMETHING to read, I grabbed my mom’s copy of Surviving Ophelia. I was probably 8-10th grade at the time. What I got out of the book then, besides that middle school girls are crazy, was that their parents and esp. moms are, too — middle-aged (or older) and going through their own transitions of marriage, relationships, work, family, etc. I got that THEN. It didn’t seem to be called out in the book by the author per se, but was a readily observable pattern in the lives of these young women. It’s affected me as a mom – when and when not to share what you’ve been going through with your kid, when to protect them from it, how to reassure them that the kid’s well-being always comes first (except in emergencies, and even then, that’s what the “village” is for)
Anonymous says
Anyone else surprised that that parent didn’t spend anything on classes or activities for baby or save anything for college? Weird.