Accessory Tuesday: Raffia Anchor Basket Tote
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It’s hard to resist all the gorgeous woven bags out there. This one from Veronica Beard will inject some summer color into your warm-weather wardrobe.
This spacious bucket bag holds everything you need for a day out. It’s woven by hand and features leather straps and gold tone toggle hardware. Add some pouches or a purse organizer to keep your things secure and organized.
The Raffia Anchor Basket Tote is $395.
Looking for something similar for less? Boden, Ann Taylor, and Banana Republic Factory all have colorful straw totes as well.
Sales of note for 5/8:
(See all of the latest workwear sales at Corporette!)
- Ann Taylor – Mother’s Day Event: 40% off your purchase. Readers love this popover blouse, and their suiting is also in the sale.
- Banana Republic Factory – Up to 50% off everything + extra 20% off
- Brooks Brothers – Dress & sport shirts, 2 for $149
- Express – $39+ summer styles + 25% off everything else
- J.Crew Factory – Up to 60% off everything + extra 70% off clearance + 40%-50% off the Weekend Shop
- Lo & Sons – Mother’s Day Sale: Up to 40% off — reader favorites include this laptop tote, this backpack, and this crossbody
- M.M.LaFleur – Try code CORPORETTE15 for 15% off
- Nordstrom – Up to 25% off
- Talbots – 50% off wear-now styles and all markdowns + 30% off tops, pants, jeans, and shorts

My toddler has been waking up with bloody spots on his sheets that seem to be coming from his mouth. The pediatrician said “sounds like teething” and checked his mouth one time, which did show a tooth coming in, but it’s gone on long enough and seems worse when he’s coughing (which is also too frequent to ignore). Daycare also noticed it during nap there and said they thought he might have bitten his cheek. I mentioned it to the ENT and she wasn’t initially concerned but we were focusing on ear tubes at that time. Has anyone ever dealt with this? Any guidance on what questions to ask at next appointment this week?
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